Little baby Maximillian enjoyed more fun photos with Steph and Colby, Jim and Sandy (freshly back from the Mexico Missions trip), plus Jodie and I. :)

4:50pm

In: Big Updates

15 May 2009

Family meeting with medical team at 2pm was a difficult meeting for everyone. The room was packed with supportive staff, Susie, Steph and Colby. Dr Alana began by stating than as we knew Max began this journey facing many major obstacles. His congenital issues were not going to improve, such as his brain and intestinal problems. This included not being able to breathe on his own and not having the ability to digest. Which also means he can’t be fed.

Max’s other systems have also begun to fail. Since the doctor was on shift three days ago,he noticed that Max requires much more ventalator assistance, probably due to his severe lung failure. His brain seems to be unable to regulate his blood pressure. Last week he was treated for PDA (the small hole in his heart), but treatment effected his kidneys causing additional failure. He is not a candidate for surgery. Max has gradual liver failure, relating to the plasma and vitamin K treatments. Since he can’t be fed, nothing can be done.

His eyes have bilateral cataracts and glacouma.

The goal at this point is to minimize further damage to his body and discontinue aggressive therapy.

We agreed with the team that it was in Max’s best interest to not continue any life saving measures and that a DNR ( do not rescitate) would be appropriate.
No further interventions are being done.
His catheter has been removed and they stopped monitoring his oxygen and blood pressure.

Daddy has been holding him for a couple of hours, reading to him. Steph and Colby went to pick up Jim and Sandy from the airport, and an overnight bag for us. We are staying at the hospital in the nesting room on this floor for parents.

Your continuing prayers are sustaining us, thank you all.

Transcribed by Susie

12:54 PM

In: Big Updates

15 May 2009

“Jodie and I are at the hospital now and Max’s room was full people … two RNs (Holly and Jenn) and two RTs (Ron and ?). Jenn let us know that Max had a really rough night and day so far … his potassium is still high (though the continual albuterol doses have brought it down to 7.3). Jenn has another emergency medicine on hand, in case his potassium doesn’t lower … otherwise he could start having arrhythmia. His blood pressure is really low, so he is back on both the dopamine (at 10 mcg) and dobutamine (at 7 mcg). They are raising the dobutamine 1 mcg every 15 minutes unless his blood pressure comes up.”

“He wasn’t urinating, so he is back on a catheter and he has switched his scalp IV a couple of times.”

9:53 AM

In: Quick SMS Notes

15 May 2009

“Jo and I are getting ready now, to first pick up Colby, then head to the hospital. We should get there right as the 10am to 12 noon quiet time is ending. Steph and Susie will be joining us before the 2pm meeting.”

“As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God? … Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.” – Psalms 42

“The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” – Psalms 18

12:28 AM

In: Quick SMS Notes

15 May 2009

“Just called Kim, Max’s RN for tonight, and she said that when they checked at 11:30, his potassium level was still high, so they started him on medication to help lower it (through a new IV in his scalp). When we left, his potassium was at 8.2 and a normal/preferable level is around 3.5 …”

8:29 PM

In: Quick SMS Notes

14 May 2009

“Shelly just gave him some phenylbarbital, which is for seizures. Max has had it before.”

“Jo and I are here with Max, relaxing and listening to some music …”

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Cute little Guy

7:48 PM

In: Big Updates

14 May 2009

“Jodie, Steph and I just came back from the shift change and little Max’s potassium level is still high. Before she left, Jennifer called the doctor and he prescribed an aerosol medication (albuterol) to help with the potassium level. They administered one dose at 6pm, will do the next at 9pm and will check the level again at 11pm 11:30pm.”

“Shelly and Kim are his RNs for the night and Christi is his RT. Shelly just weighed him at 7 lbs 10 ounces … which some may be from the edema and some from the fact that he is receiving alot of fluids but is not urinating very much.”

“He is only on Dextrose right now for his fluids, but once they bring up another potassium-free mixture, he will be back on the nutrients.”

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Baby Portrait

Baby Portrait

5:50 PM

In: Big Updates

14 May 2009

“Max’s electrolite levels (specifically potassium) are high right now … his RN Jennifer is working to find the problem (two small IV blood draws so far) and lower it, since too high of a potassium level ‘can be lethal’.”

“While she was testing his levels, she let Dad change his diaper … he definitely put it on backwards at first.”

5:19 PM

In: Quick SMS Notes

14 May 2009

“Jodie and I are back at the hospital, and as well as Max was doing yesterday, his current nurse, Jennifer, let us know that he is “touchy” today … his blood pressure has been low, so she increased his dopamine from 3 mcg to 4 and now 7. She also gave him some phetanyl (painkiller) when she bathed him earlier this morning.”

“He is 7 lbs, 2 ounces as of last night, but our conversation last week with another nurse let us know that a good amount of the weight gain is due to edema (fluid accumulation beneath the skin). His RN from last night, Kim, also said that the yellowish fluid we had seen from his eyes may also be related to the edema, since tear ducts are another way for fluid to leave our systems. During the afternoon yesterday, he received another dose of lasix, a diuretic that is to help with the edema.”

“The Child Life representative, Amber, stopped by to see us a few minutes ago and let us know that she would be at the Family Meeting we have scheduled with the doctor(s), tomorrow at 2pm.”

“I love the LORD, for he heard my voice; he heard my cry for mercy. Because he turned his ear to me, I will call on him as long as I live. The cords of death entangled me, the anguish of the grave came upon me; I was overcome by trouble and sorrow. Then I called on the name of the LORD : ‘O LORD, save me!’” – Psalm 116:1-4

“Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, ‘The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.’” – Lamentations 3:22-24

Max got to spend some time yesterday with pretty much all of the immediate Cortez family (we missed the rest of you) … at one point there were even 4 generations in one picture! As you can see from the video below, while he was with Aunt Margie, he even did a bit of breathing on his own.

About Max

Maximillian Alejandro Cortez arrived at 7:48 am on Thursday April 30, 2009, weighing 4 pounds 12 ounces.

He spent 14 days in the NICU at Florida Hospital South, with his mother, father & family, before heading home to Heaven. We are all very excited to see him again.

Contact Info

If you need to, you can contact Max's Dad:
Cell Phone: (407) 873-8709
Email: ocortez@mac.com

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